Sunday, September 2, 2012

Desires Part Deux


Desires Delivered Part Deux

27    Turn from evil and do good;
then you will dwell in the land forever.
28    For the Lord loves the just
and will not forsake his faithful ones.
They will be protected forever,
but the offspring of the wicked will be cut off;
29    the righteous will inherit the land
and dwell in it forever.

This is our second week in Psalm 37; to be honest because of what’s in it, we could stay here for a month or more. It’s a prayer filled with wisdom inviting believers to find our way in life with a clear focus on the Kingdom of God and a deep trust that God is leading the way.

It’s a prayer that teaches how to live as Jesus’ disciples in the world.

So, last week we focused on one word in the psalm, fret. As in do not fret. We talked about people who worry too much about all the wrong things. We saw that in Christ anxiety and fear are broken through developing a trust relationship with God in prayer.

This week let’s talk about the word good.  It shows up in verses 3 and 27 with similar promises

Trust in the Lord and do good;
dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.
Turn from evil and do good;
then you will dwell in the land forever.

In Christ, to dwell in the land means to enjoy God’s blessing of eternal life right now and always. And that’s good. So let’s take a moment to be clear on what kind of good we’re invited to do.

I’m sure you hear the word almost every day. Ask someone, how are you doing and most often they say doing good. Right? Sometimes people talk about doing good at work or school or that something like a birthday present or party was good. And all that is all good.

What we’re talking about here today is not that use of good. Most of the time when we use the word good it means nice or productive or enjoyable. Often it’s really just our opinion of how a day went or how well we think something got done.
When the Bible uses the word good it most often is speaking about something bigger, deeper and more important.

Jesus once said, Mark 10.18 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone.

Or the psalms often say things like,
Psalm 53.2-3     God looks down from heaven
on the sons of men
to see if there are any who understand,
any who seek God.
3     Everyone has turned away,
they have together become corrupt;
there is no one who does good,
not even one.
The good being spoken about has nothing to do with opinions; it has to do with moral value, purity, what is decent or blameless. The good Jesus talks about is pure good ultimate good, never changing good, which is God alone.

Let me tell you a story that may help us understand what’s good and how to go for it.

Back in BC live two couples I know. At one point they decided to team up and buy a vacation cabin by a lake. They liked each other and figured even if they wanted to be there at the same time, it would be a good idea.
So they went ahead and did it. They found themselves almost living together at times. Cooking together, talking, playing card games. It seemed so good. But it didn’t last.
After a while one of the men, we’ll all him Joe, decided that the other man, Jack, wasn’t a good husband. Jack didn’t do what Joe thought was good. In Joe’s opinion Jack didn’t spend enough time with his wife; he was always on his phone! Jack’s wife wasn’t concerned, but Joe and his wife wouldn’t let it go or have a discussion about it. This opinion became a conviction and finally blew up into a fight.

The cabin had to be sold, now! The two couples had to decide whether they even wanted to see each other anymore. And that was made really hard because they both went to the same church both men were on the council together.

It was at this point that they called their pastor.

Long story short, after much talk, repentance and confession, they made up. And they managed to stay in the same church. They had learned something; they had changed. They had discovered what the word good actually means.

Joe had to accept that his opinion of good may now be God’s truth. It was just his opinion; he didn’t have all the facts, he guessed and then gossiped about the situation. I don’t Joe is the only person to have made that mistake.

Isn’t it true that people are often judged as good or bad based on opinion rather than Truth? Isn’t it true that many times people separate over a difference of opinion? And equally true, too often people don’t work it out together, see the truth and be healed.

Those two couples had a choice to remain separate, hold a grudge and remain judgmental or they could reconcile in a way that really is good. By the way, is it, could it be good to keep and hold a grudge? I wonder why so many believers say no to that question yet their lives reveal something different. I, you too I’m sure know far too many people who hold grudges against people both in and outside of the church. Some have left the church because of a grudge. And usually it started with a simple difference of opinion as if anyone has a full knowledge of how to live perfectly in the world at every moment of every day.

Instead of opinion and grudges, the psalm invites us to something more. Jesus through Psalm 37 is calling his people to do good. And I cannot think of a higher good than in following his ways so that goodness becomes a greater reality for more and more people all the time.

Jesus’ standard for goodness clear.

Luke 6.27 “But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 35Love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

I don’t know about you, but I find that passage a challenge. It goes against what we see all around. Lend without expecting back? Seriously? Pray for those who mistreat you? Who does that?  

This is a passage, explains what our text means. It’s an invitation into the truly good life. A life patterned after Jesus.

It happens through prayer and practice.

During the tense time for those two couples their pastor spoke on prayer and at one point said: It is hard to remain mad at someone if you pray for them.  Prayer gives us a chance to have God show us the difference between truth and opinion. A few weeks after that service one of the wives told my friend, their pastor, that comment broke her pride. After that she knew she had to be reconciled with her friend. Anything else would be to disgrace Jesus’ work on the cross.

When we pray for others God does something amazing. Instead of seeing an enemy, or someone who is a lazy or doesn’t have the right religious ideas. Instead of seeing people as less than acceptable in some way: people who deserve judgment, say. Instead of all that, the Father helps us see someone who is also made in His image; someone who is may be trying to do the best they have with what they have. Someone who needs Jesus just as much as anyone else.

 And that’s when the power of God can be released powerfully.

In prayer and after when people realise that opinions push us apart, but the Spirit unifies through differences. It’s when we leave the prayer room and begin practicing what God has convinced  us of. That’s when healing happens; that’s when true reconciliation happens; that’s when things become just a little bit more the way they should be. Those are moments of doing good.

Don’t let those moments pass you by. One man said, to pray is to change. If we do not want to change, then we will stop praying about certain people or situations. Reflect on it; is that true for you? Who or what have you stopped praying for? Is it possible that there’s a grudge or resentment holding reign in life? Stiffing joy?  In whom or where can prayer make a difference and are we willing to listen to the Spirit in prayer so that God’s goodness will be more visible over all the earth?